When we have a dispute over something, go back to Allah and Rasulullah saw.
Where? In the Quran and Seerah.
Always go back to basic.
Life is an ongoing and never-ending learning process,
But the heart needs to be opened to get what He wants us to learn~
"Have they not travelled in the land, and have they hearts wherewith to feel and ears wherewith to hear? For indeed it is not the eyes that grow blind, but it is the hearts, which are within the bosoms, that grow blind"[Al-Hajj ; 22 :46]